Let's get one thing straight. I'm willing to bet if you ask most women, they would tell you that they do not respond to seeing male genitalia the way or to the degree that men respond to seeing female genitalia (including breasts and ass, I guess). Blame it on women's brains being wired differently. Blame it on society. We just typically don't love having dick up in our face.
I know, you're probably trying to process that right now. How can women NOT worship dick? I mean, guys base so much of their ego on the damn things, and women just don't even care?
Now, I can't speak for how all women think about guy junk. For my part, I typically don't have a problem seeing it. There are a few that I even DO like to see, even on their own (as in the focus is on the phallus, not that I'm into disembodied peen). What I'm really more interested in is the whole male body during the sexual response cycle. Lol that sounds so clinical and cold.
That's one of the reasons I've taken quite a liking to Gentleman Handling. Be warned, it's guys jerking off. If you're a heterosexual male, they have a sister site (no pun intended). Personally I don't classify either as porn. Erotica, I guess. I'm not really a fan of that classification. It makes it sound like you're trying to make your porn sound fancy. Like calling a Twinky a pastry.
I enjoy seeing men enjoy their bodies. I find it fascinating to see the variation in how guys stimulate themselves. I only just recently learned that apparently many men like to cup their balls. My ex forbade me from touching his, saying they were ticklish. The intimacy of seeing a guy touch himself the way he would if he were alone is hot. It's very personal. One of the things I really enjoy about Gentleman Handling is that while it's not spy-cam stuff, you get to see how these fellas touch themselves in a very intimate manner. They clearly know they're being filmed, many of them speak or look directly at the camera even. But the candid nature of the whole thing is just...wow. I'm not sure if, as men, you have the capacity to feel the same way about the women's version.
I feel very vulnerable when I'm playing with myself, especially when I'm close to my orgasm. I like the feeling of being able to share my body with my partner and trust them to take care of me while I zero in on my release. So in a way, seeing these guys show how they like to be touched is a demonstration of trust, even though I know I'll never lay a finger on any of them. It's difficult to put my feelings about this into words
And I hate to burst anyone's bubble, but there's something to be said for physical fitness and being attractive. Let's be realistic here. If you want me to lie to you, I can tell you whatever you want to hear, but I want you to know in the back of your head that that's all I'm doing: telling you what you want to hear. The majority of the fellas that ask me to watch them are not people I would find myself interested in (on the contrary, it seems I'm interested in the ones that DON'T ask me to watch them fap). I'm somewhat picky when it comes to what I would prefer to see. I can't be as picky when it comes to actual dating (kinda have to take what I can get, which is nothing at the moment) but when it comes to seeing guys fap, I'm not going to sugar coat it for you unless you tip me. And it is VERY rare that a guy will tip me to watch them jerk off. The fact that it's called "my free cams" means its free to watch whatever the girls are doing. Don't make requests unless you're prepared to tip. Stop asking me to watch you fap unless you want to tip. Even then, I'm likely to minimize the video window. You've been warned. I really don't find your white-knuckled-dick-grip-in-the-camera cinematography all that appealing. Your penis is not the sum of your sexuality.
I plan to lecture you on your asses soon. No, I'm not going to teach you to do the ass trick
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